[Long] The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse

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Updated: 2025.01.16

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[Long] The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse

[긴 지문] 요한계시록의 네 기사

Articles

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Videos

John Gottman's Four Horsemen and Antidotes: Couple Counselling #LewisPsychology Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse | The Gottman Institute: Relationship Behaviors that Lead to Failure

Discussion Questions

In your own words, please briefly summarize the article.

여러분의 언어로 교재를 간단히 요약해 주세요.

What part of the reading resonated with you most?

이번 교재에서 가장 공감하는 내용은 무엇인가요?

What are your thoughts on the way the couple in the passage handled their disagreement? How would you have dealt with the situation differently?

본문에 나오는 부부가 의견 불일치를 처리한 방식에 대해 어떻게 생각하세요? 여러분이라면 그 상황을 어떻게 다르게 처리했을까요?

Do you agree with John Gottman's advice to "manage" rather than "resolve" recurring issues in relationships? Why or why not?

관계에서 반복되는 문제를 '해결'하기보다는 '관리'하라는 존 고트먼의 조언에 동의하시나요? 그런 이유는 무엇인가요?

How do you think cultural differences might influence the way couples express their conflicts?

문화적 차이가 부부가 갈등을 표현하는 방식에 어떤 영향을 미칠 수 있다고 생각하시나요?

In your opinion, what role does self-awareness play in preventing the Four Horsemen behaviors in relationships?

여러분이 생각하기에, 자기 인식은 관계에서 네 기수의 행동을 예방하는 데 어떤 역할을 한다고 생각하나요?

How can individuals become more self-aware in their communication styles?

어떻게 하면 개인이 자신의 커뮤니케이션 스타일에 대해 더 자각할 수 있을까요?

If you have a question or questions that you'd like to discuss during your class, please write them down.

궁금한 점이 있거나 수업 중에 얘기해 보고 싶은 질문이 있으면 적어주세요.

Expressions

stomped

to walk heavily and noisily, often indicating anger or frustration

Ví dụ

Frustrated with the result, he stomped out of the room.

Ví dụ

She stomped her foot in frustration when her computer crashed again.

retreat

to move back or withdraw, especially from a dangerous situation or confrontation

Ví dụ

The soldiers were forced to retreat as the enemy advanced.

Ví dụ

After hours of negotiation, they decided to retreat from the deal.

emerging

coming into view or becoming known or apparent

Ví dụ

Despite the challenges, there are signs of emerging opportunities in the market.

Ví dụ

The emerging artist gained recognition after her latest exhibition.

dismissively

in a manner that indicates a lack of interest or concern

Ví dụ

She waved her hand dismissively, indicating she wasn't interested.

Ví dụ

He answered dismissively, clearly not paying attention to the question.

hits a rough patch

to experience a difficult or challenging period

Ví dụ

Every relationship hits a rough patch from time to time.

Ví dụ

After losing his job, he hit a rough patch financially.

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